Monday, April 4, 2016

Week Five-Curtis-Occasionally....I Want to Talk About Me!

     The reading I had to cover for this week consisted of a single chapter.  Chapter 8 of the Lifesmart textbook focused on the stage of development known as adolescence.  I have often thought that this period of life, separate from both childhood and adulthood, is a creation of the modern era.  In times past, a person went from childhood to adulthood, with no intermediary stage.  This is evident from rites of passage such as a bar mitzvah.  Children were expected to go from childhood to adulthood at, what we would consider, a very young age.  Yet in today's world, children from 13-17 find themselves in a strange middle area, where they are not exactly children, but neither are they considered full adults.  There are reasons why experts have adjusted their views, one of which is what is known as adolescent egocentrism.
     Parents are quite familiar with this self-centeredness which teenagers seem to possess in infinite amounts.  According to the text, adolescents seem to believe that their experiences and feelings are more important or intense than the experiences of anyone else.  There are two parts to this egocentrism: the imaginary audience and the personal fable.  The first refers to the adolescent view that they seem to be on center stage and everything they do is being observed by those around them.  The second relates to the tendency of adolescents to think of their own existence in mythical terms, seeing themselves as invincible or unstoppable.  Put together, these two elements can to behaviors which can be rude or even dangerous.
    I believe that teachers should keep this egocentrism in the back of their minds as they educate adolescents, not only because it can affect how the students may view their grades and experiences, but also because it may affect how they learn.  If students belief they are under close scrutiny by everyone, the fear of failing may become to great for them or they may be tempted to feign indifference.  Additionally, if the students believe that they are indestructible, they could be easily pressured to partake in dangerous behaviors inside and outside of school.  As teachers, we need to be aware of how our students are developing and look for signs of behaviors which could be detrimental to them.  It's not enough to teach them in school...we need to be concerned about our students even when they have gone home, because what they do outside of school will ultimately affect how they learn in class.

6 comments:

  1. I enjoyed your creative title. I do agree that students developing behaviors and look for signs while doing so it a huge part of their life. I do think you are right that its not enough to teach in school because it is such a huge development in a child's life. I think you are on point... there are NOT enough teachers that worry about what students do at home, and how the carry their behavior-good or bad, in and out of the classroom. When children are in this stage teachers should notice, or get more involved with what goes on when the leave home and try to adjust appropriately to make the child's life easier going through the adolescence stage.

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  4. This is spot on, "Yet in today's world, children from 13-17 find themselves in a strange middle area, where they are not exactly children, but neither are they considered full adults." Many theorists view development as linear but adolescence is extremely fluid. This transitional period makes reaching adolescence social and emotional needs in school even that more challenging.

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  5. I agree with the idea that adolescents can feel "under close scrutiny from everybody," and that feeling is frightening and counterproductive. It can destroy already low self-confidence. I love sports and the same feeling can paralyze an athlete--like the first time a high school kid steps to the free throw line in college, with 15,000 sets of eyes and TV cameras all aimed at him, and he bricks it.

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  6. Andrew,
    Very good post about adolecense, I agree with your main point of the pressure that kids have today to succeed. I am a young adult and when i was In high school I luckily didn't have parents that put a lot of pressure on me but some of my friends did. The other parents drove their children into the ground to succeed and they did in high school under pressure but once they went to college they went a little crazy because they didn't know what to do with the freedom. In athletics they didn't continue in college because they didn't like the sport due to the pressure from parents. I think that a kid should be able to choose their path with support from the parents. Look forward to reading more of your posts.
    -Landon

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